7 Secret Ways To Get Your Boyfriend To Be Your Husband Revealed!

It’s more often than not very frustrating being in a relationship and it just refuses to go to the next level.

You feel your not quite as loved as your boyfriend tells you everytime. Pressure mounts from family members who wish you well but can’t bear to see you in a relationship that is going nowhere. Even worse is if your age is now advanced.

 You probably are laughed at and cruel words are said to you by not just family, but friends as well. They feel saying harsh words will bring you back to your senses. Some might be open enough to tell you that it’s sometimes difficult to get your boyfriend to marry you. They probably have given you many reasons, some good and some bad.

Honestly, there are certain situations which are just unacceptable. Some situations just prove the guy may be deceitfully taking you on a ride hence, he really drags his feet regarding talks about marriage.However, there are some genuine situations that may have hindered your boyfriend from asking you to marry him. This can be due to financial restraints or not just being ready to get married at that time etc.

 Let us look at ways around this so you know how to get your boyfriend to be your husband.

 1. Assess the relationship first: by this I mean is the relationship really matured enough to move on to the next level? How long have you and your boyfriend been dating? Do you know each other sufficiently enough to get married? Do you love each other sufficiently to get married at that point in your relationship? You need to be truthful with youself and answer these questions. It will enable you to know what your next line of action will be.

 2. Be a wifey material: this is where personally, I do not take for granted. To pick a girlfriend, she must possess certain wifey material characteristics such as being respectful not just to me but to others, she has to be able to cook atleast to some extent. There is nothing like a good home made meal. If you dont cook proper meals for your boyfriend, another lady will.

 3. Be understanding and supportive: you will have to understand your boyfriend in other to expect more from your present relationship. Do you know when he is actually happy? Do you know his situation in the office regarding his work schedule? Perhaps his work time may not even be suitable to see you sufficiently let alone getting married to you and starting a family. You will have to stand by him and encourage him in his everyday life struggle.

 4. Check his financial situation: your boyfriend may love you so much but what if he is not financially stable enough to get married to you? Its quite expensive getting married and requires great planning. Matters may be even worse if you are the demanding type. You want the latest designer shoes, bags and clothes. Not to mention jewellries and other accessories. Worst still is you demand for the latest phones etc.

You need to calm down and get your priorities right. How do you really expect your boyfriend to cater for all these needs and still marry you? Look at things this way, what if the money he is using to buy you these gifts are actually funds he has put aside to marry you? He then will have to collect from the saved marriage funds to cater for your extravagant needs so as to keep you happy. Your boyfiend then has to start saving again to meet up with what he spent buying you these gifts hence, he has to postpone marriage again.

5. Be self-confident: Men love self-confident women. Please remember being arrogant is not the same as being self-confident. When you are a self-confident lady, it says so much about your personality and what your boyfriend will expect from you even as a wife. This attribute will allow you to be supportive in your relationship because it shows you as a woman who has desire and will power. Your boyfriend will be foolish not to marry you with you being a confident and optimistic person. He will look at you as someone who is hopeful when your both in a situation not so comfortable.

 6. Communicate often with him: you will have to start communicating more often with your boyfriend if you want him to be your husband. Ask him gently what his expectations are in your relationship. Find out if he thinks of getting married. Please I did not ask you  to aggressively demand this from him. You will only drive him further away from opening up to you. Be loving, tell him how much you love him and want to know what the future holds for both of you.

7. Have as much a happy relationship as possible: When your both in a happy relationship it makes your boyfriend wonder how sweet life will be forever with you. Remember no man wants to be with a boring and nagging wife. Try and have fun with your boyfriend. Avoid having a physically abusive or even unguarded verbal fights with your boyfriend. Some women just love confrontations. If your the one am referring to here, be sure to hear your boyfriend ask, “Is this the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with”?

 With this done, you should be able to impress your boyfriend sufficiently. He will be able to see you more as the lady he would love to get married to. Please be patient and avoid proposing to your boyfriend. It just does not seem right as it’s his call to do so. Bear in mind, the right man will carry the world on his head for you because your worth it.

If you have been in a situation where you had to take measures like these to get your boyfriend to marry you or you have other ways to get your boyfriend to marry you, please let us know in the comments section.

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